Dating advice from men to women
When it comes to figuring out the opposite sex, sometimes it pays to go straight to the source.We got real men to answer the question, "What the eff is he thinking?!It doesn't always need to be a tit for tat thing with giving and receiving.The norm of so many of my relationships has been doing 80 percent of the work and taking 80 percent of the initiative in the bedroom.Sometimes we just have other things going on at the time, or we don't want to seem too overeager.Sometimes I'll text before I jump on a subway home and am stuck underground for an hour." —Alex S."It's really attractive when a girl takes initiative in bed; a guy won't think any less of you.
Eating like a bird is really off-putting especially if we're dropping a fair amount of money. A few kind words that show us you're into us go a long way. " Oli B."Be more assertive if you're interested in a guy.If you're great at something and can speak about it with confidence, it makes other people want to be around you and can be a big turn on." Dom S."It's a turnoff for me when a girl pretends to like something just because I like it. A woman who suggests awesome date activities is one a guy can really appreciate, and it's nice to have something else to talk about other than yourselves and the food." Jason M."When it comes to sex, mix it up.Whatever your guy does to you, he had to learn it somewhere.If all you want is for us to listen, be sure to tell us beforehand so you don't get frustrated when we try to solve things." Ben H."Throw us a bone. Is it super easy to convince him to get one more round when he has to wake up for work at seven?We all know that men often think they know more about something than they really may. Sometimes you just have to let us set the tent up wrong when camping or take three hours to change your oilfor a lot of us, it's how we both try to impress you and show you we care. He might be miserable the next day..he probably won't mind." Brady O."Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but I love to see a woman dressed up.