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The excitement is on thinking about all the things they like about you.
The fear is rooted in insecurities: What if they don’t like me as much as I like them?
He would text me things like, ‘I miss you’ and ‘Can’t wait to see you’ and on our second date he said he ‘never liked a girl so much after only two dates’. All this was great, but then he started to shift and lately has been acting really shady- he cancels on me last minute, he’s been acting distant, and I’m just getting weird vibes.
We hit it off right away and during the first few weeks, he seemed super into me.
When both of you are convinced that you like each other, you can both “drop the mask” and start acting like yourself, fully.
What I am saying is that in the beginning phase of the relationship, it’s common for one or both people to have some amount of insecurity and want to go out of their way to make sure the other person really likes them before they let their guard down.
So one of the ways they might see if you like them is to do and say anything they can think of that they think you would like. You would want the other person you’re with to feel secure with you, so that they can let their guard down and be their true day-to-day self (without all the added performances to make you like them).
MORE: 5 Steps to Stop a Man From Withdrawing Men and women both do this, but sometimes it’s harder to see when we’re thinking about the person we’re with.
I’m not saying they’re genuinely interested in you too.