Song about your best friend dating your ex boyfriend
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.There are times where one person will get their act together because they’re afraid to lose something good or they’re determined to win something good.But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
Understanding each other is the basis of connection.You chose him – you knew what kind of an animal he was when you started going out.It’s not like one morning he just went out and started having sexy flirtations with other women all of a sudden and you were shocked. but secretly you hoped and believed that he would change for you.Instead, you’re focusing on how YOU feel about it and that YOU don’t like it. You can feel hurt and victimized or you can open your eyes to the bigger picture…and maybe learn something valuable about your guy in the process (maybe some need that he still needs met).