Tips dating a military man
I later learned that my boyfriend had lost a dear friend.My boyfriend—one of the strongest and most resilient men I know—was in his darkest hour. I felt helpless, sad and hopeless all at the same time.You will have to face problems that are not the type of thing you are used to facing, like in my case finding a dead mouse stuck in my washing machine. How long those hours are and how often they are will depend on your partner’s job and location.Some jobs won't even require 8 hours where others will keep him there 12-16 hours on a regular basis.Because when you survive the darkest days together, you realize that you are more than a girlfriend. That time served great purpose to build and nurture the foundation of your future marriage.
I simply didn’t have the same rights as married spouses.
The reason for this is that most of the people Navy Wives come in contact with are other Navy Wives and most times Navy Wives are afraid to get close to people because everyone moves eventually. It’s hard to make civilian friends too because you move so often, and even if you fight it, you'll get that mentality too.
Plus, you will automatically have less in common with civilians because you have different lifestyles by being in the Navy.
Although the Navy will pay to move you, and it’s kind of cool getting to see new places, moving is a stressful thing and it’s hard mentally. It’s hard to be uprooted and taken away from friends and family. And you don’t always get the final say in where you end up.
One of the things that all Navy Wives struggle with is making friends, and it doesn’t matter if you live on or off base.